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Your Babies Feel What You Feel…

Your Babies Feel What You Feel…
My husband at the time was about to go away to Iraq, and I found out I was pregnant again. I had a panic attack when he was getting ready to leave. I did not know why I was so upset about him leaving, but I believe what I was really feeling was how am I going to take care of two children alone? So, I moved back home because I was not going to stay by myself with two children.
 
When he returned home, I was so excited to see him because it had been a year.  When he came to us, he was different. He did not respond to the way I looked, nor did he care. I said to myself I have done it again. I am thinking how can I please this person who actually told me he doesn't love me? I thought I needed to keep my vows, but at the time, I had not known what love really was. He saw the children and gave them a rub on their heads and said he was tired and went to bed.
 
I wanted to celebrate him being home, but he was not interested in celebrating nor was he interested in being with me. So, I just sat up and cried half the night because my love bucket was empty. I wanted to take care of my children, but my stress was rubbing off on them.
 
Children feel your pain and anxiety. In fact, stress can be spread from parent to child. My children saw me struggling most of the time and it really rubbed off on them, and I never noticed it until it was really late. I would not spend time with them, but I felt like if I worked and provided for them that would be enough. That's how my dad did for me, and I had not realized that it rubbed off on me. He did the best he knew how, but in order for my children to grow up without depression and pain, I needed to make a change, and begin making time for my children.

In one study, babies were kept apart from their mothers for a short time while the moms completed a stressful task. When reunited, the babies showed signs of stress, too. While I tried to deal with my stress alone, I was passing it off to my children.
 
Take the time to destress and deal with what you are going through because, in the long run, you want yourself and your children to be healthy and whole. I am praying for all the mommas out there who are dealing with stress and anxiety. If you are interested in joining my community where there is no judgment, only love, you are more than welcome to join us here. I give help for knowing how to make time for you and relax as well as teaching you about the different soul wounds and limiting beliefs that can be causing your pain. Make time for you to become who you are desiring to be healed and whole.
 
You can also get my Mommy and Me Infant massage course at a discounted rate if you have been reading this blog, and you must put the code VIP in the checkout area so you can receive the discount. For Thanksgiving, there is a sale going on and you will receive it at an even lower price when using the code THANKSGIVING. The toddler course is on the way! I look forward to serving you and living life together as we figure out how to live free of stress in this world.

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Meet Tabitha King

 
For years, I felt helpless inside my own body.

Hi, I am a wife and mother, a minister, a massage therapist, and a holistic health coach. 
I am passionate about working with the body and learning more about how our bodies work, but more importantly, how to be made whole in our bodies, minds, and spirits.

Through the years, I had become a workaholic and never felt any peace. I was overwhelmed and stressed with dis-ease and pain.  I had to stop working for a while because of the chronic pain while having a husband and three children at home who needed me. 

I struggled with my health for quite some time, and I went through worse times before they got better. 

How many times have you been to a doctor, and they acted as if they couldn't figure out what's going on with you, so you go seeking doctor after doctor, looking for someone to help you because you know you are dealing with pain and need help figuring out the problem? How many times have you tried to create new habits, start new diets, introduce new patterns in your life, and end up feeling like you failed at all those things? 

And then, it happened. I have found something amazing that is helping me to understand I AM a healthy being, and I CAN recommit to a healthy, wealthy life!

I was introduced to a different way of living that many people are talking a lot about lately. I realized for my chronic situations; I needed to start getting my health under control. I’d considered it before, but I kept cycling back into a downward spiral going through a valley filled with pain. 

Prolonged physical illness not only affects us physically, but it affects everyone physically, mentally, and spiritually. Many tend to suffer a lot at the hands of doctors who make them worse, not better. I have dealt with this and it has put a bitter taste in my mouth towards doctors. The different medications did not lead to helping me get better, but they caused more pain, and side effects from the medicines caused deeper stress to my body. Anger, hurt, and pain kept showing up in my life, and I didn't know how to deal with it. These things controlled my mind, but now I am being made free. I love God, but, for quite some time, while I knew the Word says, "There is now no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus," I was still suffering from condemnation, guilt, blame, and shame.  Now, I have learned to persevere with joy during my pain because in the end, by faith, God will get the victory through my life's journey, and I can walk in my victory daily!

I’m on a mission to help people break free and empower themselves with the knowledge and resources I’ve worked so hard to get for myself.  
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