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Feelings and Commitment Don’t Mix (Part 1)

Feelings and Commitment Don’t Mix (Part 1)
When you think of marriage or other committed relationships it is natural to also think the commitment is bound by feelings. You want to have loving feelings for that person you spend your life with, but the commitment piece should not be driven by feelings. One of the main reasons people divorce or break up is when people “fall out of love” and abandon the commitment when the relationship has challenges. This goes for any goal you set in life-personal development, your career, or building a business, if you let your feelings dictate your commitment level, you will always lose.
          
Your feelings will tell you to stay in your comfort zone, avoid pain and struggle. Being committed means I am going to stick to this goal regardless of discomfort. When you begin the journey of committing to finding love, changing your life or career, first you have to make a conscious decision and commitment.
 
You generally begin all excited and hopeful until the first setback…and then, your level of commitment reaches its first big test. Most of the time people fall into the lowest level of commitment and stop at the first sign of struggle because it is too hard and are too depressed or angry to keep moving.
 
These people are the ones who never change their life and blame external circumstances on their failure to get what they want. They are slaves to outer influences and feel victimized. They think it should be easier and stay in the path of least resistance. It’s time to move past comfort zones into a higher level of commitment.
 
For most of my life I was told how I would never finish anything, and instead of not receiving that, I accepted what was spoken over me, and I internalized it until it became my reality, and I lived in victim mode. Well, I recently found out I do not have to receive that. In fact, I am recommitting to my goals. When making goals, since I am used to getting overwhelmed with my commitments, I realize the need to make smaller, specific goals so I will not lose focus and overwhelm myself.
 
What is your level of commitment? What do you want to create in the coming year? Write your comments below!

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Meet Tabitha King

 
For years, I felt helpless inside my own body.

Hi, I am a wife and mother, a minister, a massage therapist, and a holistic health coach. 
I am passionate about working with the body and learning more about how our bodies work, but more importantly, how to be made whole in our bodies, minds, and spirits.

Through the years, I had become a workaholic and never felt any peace. I was overwhelmed and stressed with dis-ease and pain.  I had to stop working for a while because of the chronic pain while having a husband and three children at home who needed me. 

I struggled with my health for quite some time, and I went through worse times before they got better. 

How many times have you been to a doctor, and they acted as if they couldn't figure out what's going on with you, so you go seeking doctor after doctor, looking for someone to help you because you know you are dealing with pain and need help figuring out the problem? How many times have you tried to create new habits, start new diets, introduce new patterns in your life, and end up feeling like you failed at all those things? 

And then, it happened. I have found something amazing that is helping me to understand I AM a healthy being, and I CAN recommit to a healthy, wealthy life!

I was introduced to a different way of living that many people are talking a lot about lately. I realized for my chronic situations; I needed to start getting my health under control. I’d considered it before, but I kept cycling back into a downward spiral going through a valley filled with pain. 

Prolonged physical illness not only affects us physically, but it affects everyone physically, mentally, and spiritually. Many tend to suffer a lot at the hands of doctors who make them worse, not better. I have dealt with this and it has put a bitter taste in my mouth towards doctors. The different medications did not lead to helping me get better, but they caused more pain, and side effects from the medicines caused deeper stress to my body. Anger, hurt, and pain kept showing up in my life, and I didn't know how to deal with it. These things controlled my mind, but now I am being made free. I love God, but, for quite some time, while I knew the Word says, "There is now no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus," I was still suffering from condemnation, guilt, blame, and shame.  Now, I have learned to persevere with joy during my pain because in the end, by faith, God will get the victory through my life's journey, and I can walk in my victory daily!

I’m on a mission to help people break free and empower themselves with the knowledge and resources I’ve worked so hard to get for myself.  
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